What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger ….has never been the mentality of the PHITGROUP. I have never wanted to kill you, devastate you, crush you, or BREAK you. The following is certainly not the primary reason…BUT…one thing I want to do FOR you is DISMISS your FEAR. I want to dismiss the fear that the PHITGROUP is out to make you a world champion triathlete, professional tennis player, or structured like the Arnold of old. The afore mentioned “people” have ONE thing in common with YOU… all they ever do or have done is their BEST. Why else would you do IT or anything else for that matter?
One of my favorite things about this group is the laughter. Its the perfect description of “i have done my best and now all i can do is laugh.” Dr. KB is usually the first to LAUGH and make us all laugh with him. The 70 something Doc comes out regularly to Play right next to the most competitive athletes, Super Mom’s and Dad’s, and former couch potatoes and indoor stragglers. Doc always leaves knowing the same thing that the others know… they did their best and can appreciate the dismissal of the FEAR they once had.
This past week had plenty of the FEAR element. Are Being afraid and having Fear the same thing? I wanted so much for the week to be perfect for the GOOD Girls that I had FEAR of “enough”…I was able to dismiss that unknown fear of enough prior to arrival. There was plenty to fear later…. A Broken Arm, Flying, old Family, new family, food, company, friends, car issues, getting lost, more flying, Ride experiences, and most of all TRUST. Would the word we pass along to our friends, family and loved ones be enough TRUST to dismiss the FEAR? … one step at a time…. All Fear becomes TRUST.
The expectations we have for ourselves are not the same that others have of us or for us. We have fear that their expectations are greater than our own. The one thing that can make those fears go away will bring us all back to that lovely cliche. … JUST BE YOURSELF… why would you want to be anyone else? On that note… I appreciate that you took the time to read this and It brings me immense joy to have your energy be part of the reflection that is what lights me up!